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PLEASE READ THE FOLLOWING TERMS AND CONDITIONS CAREFULLY. TheBAMList.com Web site (the "Web site" or "TheBAMList.com") is provided by The Women Who Know and/or its affiliates and subsidiaries for your and others' personal, non-commercial enjoyment, subject to the terms of these terms and conditions of use and all modifications thereto ("Terms and Conditions"), and the rules that may be published from time to time by The BAM List. By using this site, you are deemed to have agreed to these terms and conditions of use. The BAM List may change the Terms and Conditions from time to time and at any time, and without actual notice to you. All such changes to these Terms and Conditions will appear on TheBAMList.com. By using this site after we post any changes, you agree to accept those changes, whether or not you have reviewed them. If at any time you choose not to accept these Terms and Conditions of use please do not use this site.

User Conduct

This Web site and any communications service, including the capability to contribute material through the contribution form (each such submission, a "Contribution"), chat room, message board, newsgroup, or other interactive service that may be available to you on or through this site (collectively, the "Services") are provided to you solely for entertainment purposes. By using the Web Site and Services you agree: (a) to provide true, accurate, current, and complete information about yourself as prompted by the subscription form, contribution form, and any registration form. If any information provided by you is untrue, inaccurate, not current, or incomplete, The BAM List reserves the right to terminate your subscription and refuse any and all current or future use of the Services.

Without limitation of the foregoing, you agree to not use the Web site or Services to:

* Upload, post, publish, e-mail, reproduce, distribute, or otherwise transmit any information, data, text, music, sound, photographs, graphics, video, messages, or other materials, including any Contribution, (collectively, "Content"), that is unlawful, harmful, threatening, embarrassing, abusive, harassing, tortuous, defamatory, vulgar, obscene, libelous, deceptive, fraudulent, contains explicit or graphic descriptions or accounts of sexual acts, invasive of another's privacy, or hateful;

* "Stalk" another;

* Upload, post, publish, email, reproduce, distribute, or otherwise transmit any Content that victimizes, harasses, degrades, or intimidates an individual or group of individuals on the basis of religion, gender, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity, age, or disability;

* Harm minors in any way;

* Impersonate any person or entity, including, but not limited to, a BAM List official, or falsely state or otherwise misrepresent your affiliation with a person or entity;

* Forge headers or otherwise manipulate identifiers in order to disguise the origin of any Content transmitted to or through the Web site;

* Upload, post, publish, email, reproduce, distribute, or otherwise transmit any Content that you do not have a right to transmit under any law or under contractual or fiduciary relationships (such as inside information, proprietary, and confidential information learned or disclosed as part of employment relationships or under nondisclosure agreements);

* Upload, post, publish, email, reproduce, distribute, or otherwise transmit any Content that infringes any patent, trademark, trade secret, copyright, or other proprietary rights of any party;

* Upload, post, publish, email, reproduce, distribute, or otherwise transmit any unsolicited or unauthorized advertising, promotional materials, "junk mail," "Spam," "chain letters," "pyramid schemes," or any other form of solicitation;

* Upload, post, publish, email, reproduce, distribute, or otherwise transmit any material that contains software viruses, Trojan horses, worms, time bombs, cancelbots, or any other computer code, files, or programs designed to interrupt, destroy, or limit the functionality of any computer software or hardware or telecommunications equipment or any other similarly destructive activity, or surreptitiously intercept or expropriate any system, data, or personal information;

* Act in a manner that negatively affects other users' ability to engage in the Web site or Services;

* Engage in any activity that is contrary to or which would adversely affect the purpose or intention of the Web site or Services, including but not limited to, actually or attempting to manipulate, corrupt, or otherwise affect the outcome of the Services, in whole or part, by, among other methods, subscribing another party without their authorization, or registering multiple subscriptions under the same or different names;

* Interfere with or disrupt the Service or servers or networks connected to the Service, or disobey any requirements, procedures, policies, or regulations of networks connected to the Service; or

* Intentionally or unintentionally violate any applicable local, state, national, or international law.

You also agree that you will not harvest, collect, or store information about the users of this Web Site or the Content posted by others on this Web Site or use such information for any purpose inconsistent with the purpose of this Web Site or for the purpose of transmitting or facilitating transmission of unsolicited bulk electronic mail or communications.

You acknowledge that The BAM List is not responsible for material submitted to The BAM List or posted to the Web site by users. The BAM List does not pre-screen, monitor, review, or edit the Content posted by users. However, The BAM List and its designees have the right (but not the obligation) at their sole discretion to refuse or remove any Content, in whole or part, that in The BAM List’s judgment, does not comply with these Terms and Conditions or is otherwise undesirable, inappropriate, or inaccurate. The BAM List is not responsible for any failure, non-failure, or delay in removing such Content. You will remain responsible for the accuracy, copyright compliance, legality, decency, or any other aspect of such submitted material, including any Contribution or part thereof, or other communication to The BAM List. You agree to immediately notify The BAM List of any unauthorized use of the Service or any other breach of security known or suspected by you.

You acknowledge and agree that The BAM List may preserve Content and may also disclose Content if required to do so by law or in the good faith belief that such preservation or disclosure is reasonably necessary to: (a) comply with legal process; (b) enforce these Terms and Conditions; (c) respond to claims that any Content violates the rights of third-parties; or (d) protect the rights, property, or personal safety of The BAM List, its users or the public.

You understand that the technical processing and transmission of the Web site, including your Content, may involve (a) transmissions over various networks; and (b) changes to conform and adapt to technical requirements of connecting networks or devices. The BAM List assumes no responsibility for the deletion or failure to store postings, Contributions, or other information submitted by you or other users to TheBAMList.com.

Any or all Content on the Web site may be purged periodically in The BAM List's sole discretion. You acknowledge and agree that Content you view, submit, or post is at your own discretion and risk, including any reliance on the accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of such Content. You acknowledge that you may not rely on any information, data, text, music, sound, photographs, graphics, video, messages, or other materials created by The BAM List or submitted to The BAM List, including Content. You further acknowledge and agree that the views expressed on the Web Site do not necessarily reflect the views of The BAM List, and The BAM List does not support or endorse Content (including any Contribution, whether or not edited by The BAM List or its designee or presented on the Web site edited or unedited, in whole or in part, or alone, or with other content) posted or submitted by you or any User.

Restrictions On Use of Material

The Content on this Web site is intended for entertainment purposes only.  Except as expressly permitted, you agree not to use the Web site for sale, trade, or other commercial purposes, and you may not modify copy, publish, display, transmit, adapt, or in any way exploit the content of the Web site. Only if you obtain prior written consent from us -- and from all other entities with an interest in the relevant intellectual property -- may you publish, display, or commercially exploit any material from the Web site. To seek our permission, you may write to us at our address provided below. If permission is granted by us and by all other entities with an interest in the relevant intellectual property, you may not change or delete any author attribution, trademark, legend, or copyright notice.

You must abide by all additional copyright notices or other restrictions contained on the Web site.

Unsolicited Materials

In operating this site, The BAM List does not solicit nor does it wish to receive any confidential, secret, or proprietary information or other material from you through the Web site or The BAM List mail and e-mail addresses, or in any other way. Any information or material submitted or sent to The BAM List, will be deemed not to be confidential or secret. By submitting or sending information or other material to The BAM List you represent and warrant that the information is original to you and that no other party has any rights to the material.

User's Grant Of Limited License

By communicating with The BAM List, including submitting or sending Content, a Contribution or other information or material to TheBAMList.com, you grant The BAM List the royalty-free, unrestricted, world-wide, perpetual, irrevocable, non-exclusive, and fully sub-licensable right and license to use, reproduce, modify, adapt, publish, translate, create derivative works from, distribute, perform, and display such Content (in whole or part), including any information, suggestions, ideas, drawings, or concepts contained in such Content, worldwide and/or to incorporate it in other works in any form, media, or technology now known or later developed. Such license includes incorporating a Contribution, in whole or in part, into a The BAM List feature. You will remain responsible for the accuracy, copyright compliance, legality, decency, or any other aspect of such submitted material, including any Contribution or part thereof, or other communication to The BAM List.

You also warrant that any "moral rights" in posted materials have been waived.

Linked Sites

You may be able to link to third parties' Web sites ("Linked Sites") from The BAM List Web site. Linked sites are not, however, reviewed, controlled, or examined by The BAM List in any way and The BAM List is not responsible for the content, availability, advertising, products, or other materials of any such linked sites, or any additional links contained therein. These links do not imply The BAM List’s endorsement of our association with the linked sites. It is your sole responsibility to comply with the appropriate terms of service of the linked sites as well as with any other obligation under copyright, secrecy, defamation, decency, privacy, security, and export laws related to the use of such Linked Sites and any content contained thereon. In no event shall The BAM List be liable, directly or indirectly, to anyone for any loss or damage arising from or occasioned by the creation or use of the linked sites or the information or material accessed-through these linked sites. You should direct any concerns to that site's administrator or webmaster. The BAM List reserves the exclusive right, at its sole discretion, to add, change, decline, or remove, without notice, any feature or link to any of the linked sites from the Web site and/or introduce different features or links to different users.

SPECIAL NOTICE:

THE LINKED SITES MAY CONTAIN CONTENT AND GRAPHICS THAT CONTAIN SEXUALLY EXPLICIT MATERIAL UNSUITABLE FOR MINORS, OR THAT MAY OTHERWISE BE OFFENSIVE. IF YOU ENTER THESE LINKED SITES, YOU ASSERT THAT YOU ARE OF LEGAL ADULT AGE IN YOUR JURISDICTION TO VIEW SUCH MATERIALS AND THAT THE VIEWING, READING, AND/OR DOWNLOADING OF CONTENT FROM THESE LINKED SITES DOES NOT VIOLATE THE COMMUNITY STANDARDS OF YOUR LOCALITY, CITY, TOWN, COUNTY, STATE, PROVINCE, COUNTRY, OR OTHER COMMUNITY TO WHICH YOU BELONG, AND/OR FROM WHICH YOU ACCESS THESE LINKED SITES.

Permission must be granted by us for any type of link to TheBAMList.com. To seek our permission, you may write to The BAM List. We reserve the right, however, to rescind any permission granted by us to link through any type of link, and to require termination of any such link to the Web Site, at our discretion at any time.

Contests, Promotions, Simulations, or Games

From time to time, The BAM List may offer as part of the Services, either on or through the Web site, contests, promotions, simulations, or games (collectively, "Games"). To participate in Games, players may be required to complete a registration form. Upon submission, all registrations become the exclusive property of The BAM List. Registered users (each, a "Registered User") are permitted only one account. Registered Users with more than one account are subject to immediate disqualification from any Game, unless the description of the Game expressly invites a user to register multiple times. The BAM List, at its sole discretion, may suspend or revoke the registration of any Registered User.

Registered Users agree to release The BAM List and its agents, advertisers, sponsors, or promotional partners, from all liability arising from participation in any of Game located on, or accessed through, the Web Site. The BAM List is not responsible for technical, hardware, or software failures of any kind, lost or unavailable network connections, or failed, incomplete, garbled, or delayed computer transmissions which may limit any Registered User's ability to participate in any Game.

Each Registered User agrees to be bound by the rules of any Game and by the rules of fair play and consideration of fellow Registered User. A Registered User who violates any of the rules or guidelines for behavior published on the Web Site, or the site where the Game is conducted, are subject to immediate disqualification and revocation of their registration. The BAM List is under no obligation to award any prize to any Registered User who violates a published rule or guideline.

Some Games may offer prizes to Registered Users. All prizes are subject to the official game or contest rules published with that Game.

The BAM List reserves the right to cancel, terminate, or alter any Game or the rules thereof at any time without prior notification.

Intellectual Property Rights

All materials contained in this Web site are the copyrighted property of The BAM List and its affiliates or licensors. As between The BAM List and you, The BAM List is the sole owner of all content on the Web site, including without limitation, all applicable U.S. and non-U.S. copyrights, patents, trademarks, and trade secrets, and other intellectual property rights thereto. Except as otherwise specifically provided in these Terms and Conditions, you may not download or save a copy of the Web site or any portion thereof, for any purpose. You may, however, print a copy of individual screens appearing as part of the Web site solely for your personal, non-commercial use, or records, provided that any marks, logos, or other legends that appear on the copied screens remain on, and are not removed from the printed or stored images of such screens. All title and intellectual property rights in and to the content of the linked sites is the property of the respective content owner and may be protected by applicable copyright or other intellectual property laws and treaties.

Parental Permission

This Web site is not intended to be a children's site, therefore, some of the available information may concern certain topics that may not be appropriate for children. The BAM List may, at its discretion, require users under 18 to obtain the consent of a parent or guardian to view certain content and The BAM List may limit access to certain content to users above a specified age. You agree to abide by any such restrictions, and not to help anyone avoid these restrictions.

Privacy Policy

We are committed to protecting your privacy and security and have explained in detail the steps we take to do so. We urge you to read our privacy policy.

Disclaimer Of Warranties

THE WEB SITE AND SERVICES ARE PROVIDED "AS IS," "WHERE IS" AND "AS AVAILABLE," WITHOUT WARRANTY OF ANY KIND, EITHER EXPRESS OR IMPLIED. WITHOUT LIMITATION OF THE FOREGOING, THE BAM LIST SPECIFICALLY DISCLAIMS ANY AND ALL WARRANTIES, INCLUDING, BUT NOT LIMITED TO: (i) ANY WARRANTIES CONCERNING THE AVAILABILITY, ACCURACY, APPROPRIATENESS, RELIABILITY, TIMELINESS, USEFULNESS, OR OTHERWISE OF THE CONTENT OF THE WEB SITE OR SERVICES; AND (ii) ANY WARRANTIES OF TITLE, WARRANTY OF NON-INFRINGEMENT, WARRANTIES OF MERCHANTABILITY OR FITNESS FOR A PARTICULAR PURPOSE. THIS DISCLAIMER OF LIABILITY APPLIES TO ANY DAMAGES OR INJURY CAUSED BY THE WEB SITE, INCLUDING WITHOUT LIMITATION AS A RESULT OF (1) ANY ERROR, OMMISSION, DELETION, OR DEFECT IN THE CONTENT, OR (2) ANY FAILURE OF PERFORMANCE, ERROR, OMISSION, INTERRUPTION, DELETION, DEFECT, DELAY IN OPERATION, OR TRANSMISSION, COMPUTER VIRUS, COMMUNICATION LINE FAILURE, THEFT OR DESTRUCTION, OR UNAUTHORIZED ACCESS TO, ALTERATION OF, OR USE OF RECORD, WHETHER FOR BREACH OF CONTRACT, TORT, NEGLIGENCE, DEFAMATION, OR UNDER ANY OTHER CAUSE OF ACTION. THE BAM LIST DOES NOT WARRANT OR GUARANTEE (1) THAT ANY PORTION OF THE WEB SITE WILL BE FREE OF INFECTION BY VIRUSES, WORMS, TROJAN HORSES, OR ANYTHING ELSE MANIFESTING, CONTAMINATING, OR DESTRUCTIVE PROPERTIES; OR (2) THAT ACCESS TO THE WEB SITE WILL BE UNINTERRUPTED OR ERROR-FREE. THE BAM LIST DOES NOT WARRANT OR MAKE ANY REPRESENTATIONS REGARDING THE USE OR THE RESULTS OF THE USE OF THE MATERIALS IN THIS WEB SITE. YOU (AND NOT THE BAM LIST OR ANY OF ITS AGENTS) ASSUME THE ENTIRE COST OF ALL NECESSARY SERVICING, REPAIR, OR CORRECTION. APPLICABLE LAW MAY NOT ALLOW THE EXCLUSION OF IMPLIED WARRANTIES, SO THE ABOVE EXCLUSION MAY NOT APPLY TO YOU.

Limitation Of Liability

IN NO EVENT WILL THE BAM LIST, ITS OFFICERS, DIRECTORS, EMPLOYEES, AGENTS, SPONSORS, ADVERTISERS, PARENTS, AFFILIATES, SUCCESSORS, OR ASSIGNS, BE LIABLE TO ANY PARTY (i) FOR ANY INDIRECT, SPECIAL, PUNITIVE, INCIDENTAL, OR CONSEQUENTIAL DAMAGES OR ANY OTHER DAMAGES ARISING IN ANY WAY OUT OF THE AVAILABILITY, USE, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE THE WEB SITE, EVEN IF THE BAM LIST OR ITS AGENTS SHALL HAVE BEEN ADVISED OF THE POSSIBILITY OF SUCH DAMAGES, AND REGARDLESS OF THE FORM OF ACTION, WHETHER IN CONTRACT, TORT, OR OTHERWISE; OR (ii) FOR ANY CLAIM ATTRIBUTABLE TO ERRORS, OMISSIONS, OR OTHER INACCURACIES IN, OR DESTRUCTIVE PROPERTIES OF THE WEB SITE. BECAUSE SOME STATES OR JURISDICTIONS DO NOT ALLOW THE EXCLUSION OR THE LIMITATION OF LIABILITY FOR CONSEQUENTIAL OR INCIDENTAL DAMAGES, IN SUCH STATES OR JURISDICTIONS, THE BAM LIST'S LIABILITY SHALL BE LIMITED TO THE EXTENT PERMITTED BY LAW.

Indemnification

Upon a request by The BAM List, you agree to defend, indemnify, and hold The BAM List, its affiliates, officers, directors, and employees harmless from any and all claims, liabilities, costs, and expenses, including reasonable attorneys' fees, arising in any way from your use or misuse of the Web Site or Services, or the uploading, posting, publishing, emailing, reproduction, distribution, or transmission of any Content or other materials by you or users authorized by you or any violation of these Terms and Conditions by you. The BAM List reserves the right, at its own expense, to assume the exclusive defense and control of any matter otherwise subject to indemnification by you, in which event you will cooperate with The BAM List in asserting any available defense.

Copyrights And Copyright Agent

We respect the intellectual property rights of others, and require that the people who use the TheBAMList.com Web site do the same.

Applicable Laws / Jurisdiction

You agree that the laws of the State of New York, excluding its conflicts-of-law rules, shall govern these Terms and Conditions. Please note that your use of the Web site may be subject to other local, state, national, and international laws. You expressly agree that exclusive jurisdiction for any claim or dispute with The BAM List or relating in any way to your use of the Web site resides in the courts of the State of New York, and you further agree and expressly consent to the exercise of personal jurisdiction in the courts of the State of New York, in connection with any such dispute, and including any claim involving The BAM List or its affiliates, subsidiaries, employees, contractors, officers, directors, telecommunication providers, and content providers.

We control and operate this site from our offices in New York. We do not represent that materials on the site are appropriate or available for use outside of New York. Persons who choose to access this site from other locations do so on their own initiative, and are responsible for compliance with local laws, if and to the extent local laws are applicable.

Any inquiries concerning these terms and conditions of use should be directed to info@thebamlist.com

Provisions unenforceable or invalid

If any part of this agreement is held invalid or unenforceable, that portion shall be construed in a manner consistent with applicable law to reflect, as nearly as possible, the original intentions of the parties, and the remaining portions shall remain in full force and effect.

Assignment

You shall not transfer, assign, sublicense, nor pledge in any manner whatsoever, any of your rights or obligations under this Agreement. The BAM List may transfer, assign, sublicense, or pledge in any manner whatsoever, any of its rights and obligations under this agreement to a subsidiary, affiliate, or successor thereof or to any third party whatsoever, without notifying you or receiving your consent.